Masked Resistance

Riley shares some thoughts, concerns, and observations on the uncommon phenomenon of mask-wearing during this pandemic. 

Riley shares some thoughts, concerns, and observations on the uncommon phenomenon of mask-wearing during this pandemic. 

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We are a year into this pandemic and like most traumatic moments in history, it will soon be boiled down to a single concept in our collective consciousness. In my view, there can be no better symbol than the face mask.

I remember when the pandemic broke out and I, along with every other public communicator in Whatcom, was scooped up into the emergency response. We parsed language from the CDC about face coverings and shared videos about making masks from bandanas. It seemed so straightforward at that time: an airborne illness means covering your mouth and face. Simple as that.

My mother sent my wife and me a pair of handmade masks that she had sewn from the same fabrics as the cloth napkins she made for our wedding years ago. She even included a little one sized just for my three-year-old son, Cypress. The thoughtful gesture made the grim news easier to bear. After all, we just needed to bend the curve for a little bit and things would be alright.

The weeks stretched on, and masks became a flashpoint. In my work, I began to loathe the subject. Any public communication I put out about masks was quickly bombarded by a slew of angry responses. A dizzying cocktail of pseudo-science, fear, and rage. There was no reasoning with mask objectors, no cited scientific studies or expert testimony could persuade them - their only response was an outpouring of fear and outrage. 

At first, I tried to argue, to show others who were watching that no, this wasn’t accurate. But it quickly became exhausting, and now all I do is simply restate the rules and hope that most folks follow along. 

Over the summer, I streamed “Watchmen,” a great alternate-history series on HBO, and one line stuck with me. “Why did you give me a mask?” a dying man asks his murderer. “Because masks make men cruel.” The murderer responds. As the case numbers spiked, I certainly felt cruel toward those around me.

Looking around the Lynden Safeway at the exposed noses or unmasked faces, I was filled with uncharitable thoughts toward my neighbors. I struggled to keep positive about those living on my street; the ones that shared their produce when their garden went bananas, or forgivingly allowed my toddler son to wander through their yard when he discovered a new flower or pile of dirt. After all their kindness, I still found myself judging them harshly for their boisterous unmasked parties or casual disdain for social distancing.

It seemed so easy, just wear a mask! Make it fun if you can! I am always impressed when I see someone matching their mask to their outfit, a true accomplishment in a year of sweatpants and sensible sweaters. When it was time for Cypress to go to preschool, outdoors and masked of course, we took him to Joanne Fabrics and had him select a few different cloth swatches that Bryna then transformed into little masks for him to wear. 

He never complained about having to wear a mask - simply accepted that “the big sickie” was going around and it had to be done. Later, as the wet weather set in, his cheeks blossomed with rashes from wearing the wet fabric for hours on end. It broke my heart putting ointment on those soft cheeks, wishing that he had been born in another year, and hoping against hope that I have protected him from the worst of this collective trauma.

When I last visited my parents’ house, their happy Buddha statue had been transformed into a mask shrine, the smiling statue now gleefully holds their cloth masks by the door. At my house, it was much more haphazard, a loose collection in the car and in the spot that I keep our keys. With our stimulus check, we indulged and purchased a few with fancy designs (Doctor Who for me, a pentacle for Bryna) but even as a fashion accessory, they were still uncomfortable. 

I hate trying to hear what people are saying without seeing their lips, I hate the feeling of my beard trapped inside the cloth, I hate when I wear it all day at the office, and then I hate the unsettling sensation of not wearing a mask when I work at home. 

I hate that wearing a mask has become a political litmus test rather than common sense. I hate the pleading tone in the voices of my health-worker friends who are literally begging people to wear them. I hate the bitterness I feel when I come to a playground and see parents wandering around in close contact with others unmasked; I feel resentment toward them for their careless actions, and then guilt for judging them at a moment’s glance, and finally, I feel overwhelmed by the fear of spreading the virus.

Maybe it is something about hiding your face but keeping your eyes exposed. A visual barrier that impedes us from expressing anything fully. Speaking mythologically, a masked man could only be a bandit, a bank robber, or a superhero. Not great odds really and certainly not something that would inspire compassion with your fellow man. 

It has been a long year of masks, and even with the encouraging vaccination numbers, I know we will be seeing them into the summer and maybe beyond. I think the hardest part of moving on from this collective trauma will not be taking off our masks, but letting go of everything that they represent. At least, we should be able to do that emotional work together. 

Masks may make us cruel, hopefully companionship can make us kind again.

About Riley Sweeney

Citizen Journalist • Member since Aug 10, 2009

Riley Sweeney, raised in the Pacific Northwest, moved to Bellingham during the Bush years, worked on a cross-section of political campaigns during the Obama years, and then fled to the [...]

Comments by Readers

David A. Swanson

Mar 05, 2021

The covid-19 version of the old western saying, “They died with their boots on” can be applied to the anti-maskers,  “they died with their rights on” -  and recklessly killed others while doing so.

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Lisa E. Papp

Mar 05, 2021

Here is my question…
If I mask up for others, will they take responsibility for their health and boost their immune system by eating healthfully, exercising, getting good sleep, reducing stress, and taking nutritional supplements (C, D3, K2, Zinc)?

For a high percentage of people, I would say that they are not making healthy choices. I see your shopping carts full of processed food and sugar-laden products. I’ve seen a year’s worth of social media posts of increased comfort food eating, baking, staying inside, and increased alcohol consumption.

A modeling study suggests a majority of adult COVID-19 hospitalizations are attributable to at least one of four pre-exisiting conditions: obesity, hypertension, diabetes, and heart failure:

https://now.tufts.edu/news-releases/study-estimates-two-thirds-covid-19-hospitalizations-due-four-conditions-0

From Jay Montgomery M.D. (twitter @sjacobm321):
“If Americans had paid as much attention to their own health and reversible risks like BMI, Vit D, A1C, etc for 8 mos rather than whether their neighbor wears a mask or will take the Vax, outcomes could really be different for many. But personal responsibility is an anathema.”

 

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David A. Swanson

Mar 05, 2021

And to your list we can add taking responsbility for the proliferation of (1) assault weapons, (2) mega round ammo clips, (3) a national cult of personality, and (4)  propaganda and lies  passing for information, Maybe all of the shopping cart-pushing, Twinky-chomping, booze-guzzling, SR 47-toting, idol worshipping, and  propaganda consuming varmits will head off to the Boot Hill in Pioche, Nevada, for the final stand prior to rapture.

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Michael Riordan

Mar 05, 2021

There is a veritable mountain of evidence that asymptomatic carriers of the coronavirus account for between 30 and 60 percent of all infectious persons. Thus a primary reason to wear a mask, other than to protect yourself, is to protect those you come into contact with — because you don’t really know whether you are a carrier unless you’ve had a recent, credible test.

So those who refuse to wear a mask in public settings, especially indoors — for example, in a grocery store — are in effect saying “f**k you” to their neighbors and fellow community members. They only care about themselves.

This is what I have called “toxic individualism” in recent posts and comments. It’s the main reason why the United States has experienced over 20 percent of the Covid-19 cases and deaths despite having only about 4 percent of the world’s population.

And it’s indeed proving deadly. Just take a look at Texas.

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Steve M. James

Mar 05, 2021

I heard somewhere that one thing we are learning for sure is who among us demonstrates  care for their fellows by masking up to try to prevent the spread of this terrible disease and who among does not demonstrate any concern by selfishly refusing to wear a mask putting their opinion over science. After we have moved on to what ever the future holds, for me it is going to be hard to forget what I’ve seen and learned.

 

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Nicholas Sotak

Mar 05, 2021

It’s all about personal responsiblity. Am I right?  It’s my *choice* to wear a mask.  I have the *right* not to.  It’s in the First Amendent.  But, hey, I’ll do it-for you…just as long as you get healthy, and fast!  You need to eat right.  You need to exercise.  You need to stop having diabetes.  You need to stop being obese.  You need to lower your blood pressure.  Just get healthy.  It’s all about (my) freedoms.  Make sense?

Sorry, but I don’t get it. 

 

Wearing a mask is a political symbol because it was made a symbol.  It can stop being one, or better yet it can be a the one it always should have been.  Wear a mask for your family, your neighbors, your town, your state, your country, and the rest of mankind. 

 

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Michael Riordan

Mar 06, 2021

Riley’s observation about maskless shoppers at the Lynden Safeway made me go look at the Whatcom County Covid-19 web site and look what I found:

https://www.whatcomcounty.us/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=2367

Notice those red and purple lines soaring way above the rest of the County in December and January? Well, folks, those lines represent people who live in the Lynden and Nooksack Valley school districts — just like the Red-state Republican rogues in Florida, South Dakota and Texas who ridicule the wearing of masks.

Then scroll down a bit to the County map and note the numbers of confirmed cases per 100,000 citizens in these two districts versus Bellingham — four to five times higher!

There cannot be much better evidence for the adverse impact of toxic individualism on the health of US citizens.

 

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